I had a friend request to write about baby mommas and baby daddys so here it is. Her concern was baby mommas who use their child support money to support herself and yet try to get more money out of the fathers for things that the children need I.E. bottles, diapers, clothes, hair cuts, shoes, etc. Now I know a lot of fathers get away with not having to pay child support or if they do it is a minimal amount but regardless of how much he is paying ladies use that money to support your children, not get your nails done, not to get a new cell phone, not to go out and party. I know fathers who take damn good care of their children and still get shafted because the mother has custody so they like to play these hard working men to get more money out of them. Not cool. Then you have these baby mommas who are used to their dope boy baby daddys and the money being there at all times whenever you call and he still doesn't get to see his children like he should, but what about those men who are growing up and realizing the dope game isn't where he needs to be and is trying to get his life on track yet these baby mommas are acting greedy AF!! What good is the dope boy when it takes the father out of your children's lives for the time he is locked up- you aren't getting money out of him and he isn't seeing the children. Ladies stop being so damn greedy, it is not a good look at all. I honestly can say that I have nothing bad to say about the majority of baby daddys that I know because the men bust their asses to take care of children and in the end get played by these women. Women need to stop asking for hand outs when they are capable of taking care of their children if they used the money the received for what they receive it for. Men need to stop bitching about their baby mommas asking for money when you have no job, no income and do not see your children. Men get a job, and Ladies you too!
In the end we all have to remember one thing... these are the people you chose to lay down and produce children with. We all choose our own destiny.
I can't comment on this over the last few years my views on CHILD SUPPORT AND BABIES MOMMA'S AND DADDIES have changed. I only know that personally when the babies sperm donors were not willing nor able to help support the mother during her pregnancy and that because of this many GRANDPARENTS took care of the responsibilities ( financial or/and all the other ways that parents need to be there) then to have some guy claim he wants visitation rights and custody I would tell him take a flying leap... I think that the courts are wrong... In households where Grandparents are the care givers that they be given consideration. You just can't have someone walk up to you and claim a child when for months and years they denied them. And since the only thing that the father does is donate sperm I think that unless other needs are met if something happens to the Mother that the Grandparents be given custody and soul responsibility of raising that child.If drugs are involved anywhere with anyone... sooner or later it is going to land someone in jail.... who is taking care of the child???
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